I Need some advice???
Okay in a nutshell: I am 46 been married as a JW to a JW for 14 years. He told me before we got married that he never gets mad!!!! To my demise he is very abusive emotionally and mentally. He also...
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Wow wolfgal.....I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I cannot personally relate to your situation, however I will try and tell you my "2 cents" on the matter. First of all, I applaud you for...
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I hate to say it but you are going to be df'd no matter what you do. If you go to meet with them and deny wrong doing, they will say you are lying and df you. If you don't go and you say nothing at...
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Welcome Wolfgal I can't tell you anything to do based on my experience, but, if I were caught in your situation, I would probably go ahead and meet with them. It is afterall a good opportunity to...
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if you are legally separated (and not living in the same house) he can't claim that you were adulterous in the courts eyes. Only way he can is if you had a sexual affair WHILE you were not separated...
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Whether you go to the meeting or not depends on whether or not you want to be df'd. If you don't care, then don't go. If you do not want to be df'd for whatever reason, then you should go and deny the...
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Wolfgal First let me say that I'm SORRY! Abuse of any kind is unacceptable - to us as humans AND to Jehovah. But u have to understand (like someone already posted) the elders do NOT follow the same...
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yes babygirl30....I wouldn't want to wish it on anyone either. I wish I was closer so I could offer my help (physically). I feel for you Wolfgal...it should have never gotten to this point. Your ex...
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My two cents... I was married to an abusive woman for ten years. The religion is not worth the abuse. I have lost family and "friends" over this and I don't care. It wasn't worth staying there one...
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if you are legally separated (and not living in the same house) he can't claim that you were adulterous in the courts eyes. Only way he can is if you had a sexual affair WHILE you were not separated...
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@palmel1234... @My Brain Hurts...same with me. During one of there very few visits with me (trying to get me to go back to him and the religion) I was actually running back and forth to the bathroom,...
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Ben...how come when I went to the elders about my ex's abuse and alcoholism...they said "we don't get involved in family affairs" So I was left to deal with his wrath. That is the final, deciding...
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of course...I just wanted to clarify something. Because if her ex is anything like mine...he will use that scare tactic on her. That he can claim she is committing adultery when, in fact, he doesn't...
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You say "I've been married to a JW for 14 years" but don't say that you're one yourself. That makes a difference. If you've ever been baptized they CAN--and will--disfellowship you whether you show up...
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You know I may think back one day and perhaps regret not going to the elders and certainly not because I have any concern at all for being df'd. , only because in one aspect they should know the truth...
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I feel alot of gratitude for people like you that have been on this website. Wouldn't it be cool if we could all for just one moment of time meet together and give each other a hug, how genuine the...
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First I would like to say how proud I am of you for removing your children from that situation. The children should ALWAYS be our first priority regardless of what our own personal feelings in the...
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I am very grateful for all the challenges that I have in my life, I teach my children it's challenging people and situations that we have to be very grateful for as it raises us to a higher energy...
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The challenges we go through in life makes us who we are. Teach them also not to let others do their thinking for them. When in a crisis, a person can either rise above it and come out stronger than...
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